Letting Go of the Old Script

Most of us live by scripts we didn’t write: the script of the perfect family, the script of being chosen first, the script of never failing. In a blended family, those scripts break. You can either cling to them or choose a new one.

Letting go of the old script isn’t failure. It’s freedom. It means you are no longer driven by the past. It means you can write a new story that fits your real life.

New script ideas

• “We choose each other daily.”
• “Repair matters more than perfection.”
• “Love is a practice, not a performance.”

When you release the old script, you create space for a more honest family.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.

When I choose peace over being right, I protect the relationships that matter most. That choice is not passive. It is leadership.