Ian Rasmussen

14
Jun

Communicate Before Resentment Becomes the Weather

2 min read
13
Jun

When Love Brings More Than One Story Home

When I met Alana, I had to learn that love was not an eraser. It was an invitation to honor more than one story at the same table.
4 min read
12
Jun

The Ferry Was Full of the World

A commute on the Staten Island Ferry became a reminder that stepfamilies are already practicing one of the most necessary kinds of love in the world.
4 min read
12
Jun

When You Feel Like the Extra Adult

2 min read
09
Jun

Let Summer Make It Easier to Choose Each Other

2 min read
07
Jun

The Date Night Does Not Have to Be Impressive

3 min read
05
Jun

Wholesome Recreational Activities

A funny old phrase from Mormon life became a real reminder: couples need ordinary, low-pressure ways to enjoy being together.
3 min read
01
Jun

Faith That Makes the Table Kinder

Faith matters when it makes the table kinder, the apology cleaner, the boundary wiser, and the home safer.
3 min read
01
Jun

Giving Yourself Without Disappearing

Stepfathers often give deeply and quietly. Sustainable love requires rhythms that keep the man from disappearing inside the role.
3 min read
01
Jun

The Gifts I Honor and the Fear I Am Outgrowing

Ian honors the gifts of faith and family formation while naming the fear, worthiness pressure, and narrow certainty he is trying to outgrow.
3 min read

What this space protects

A safe room in a loud world.

The goal is not a polished family image. The goal is a house where truth can be told with mercy, children do not carry adult meanings, the marriage becomes a bridge, and repair is ordinary enough to use tonight.